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Jesus Wept: Acceptance First | Devotional Three
I'll never forget when I had a participant complete my workshop : "Recovering from the Losses of Life” She came to meet with me following the class to explain the extent of her Grief. "I'm in the Breakout Sessions, and all these people around me are crying about things that happened so long ago, and I don't feel that intense sadness. Is there something wrong with me?” The ironic thing I’m going to say as a Pastor (who is writing you a devotional to help you in your grief) is: No one gets to tell you how to grieve. Not even me. What I will tell you to do is embrace it as a part of your life. What doesn’t often get mentioned is that Grief & Love coexist as parts of each other. Pushing Grief away because it’s uncomfortable or messy doesn’t do anything for you. And it doesn’t fully acknowledge the great Love for which the loss is so devastating. The methods I’ll share won’t matter much if you haven’t given yourself Permission to grieve. It’s not dissimilar to attending any type of recovery meeting. You have to start by saying “Hi, I’m NAME, and I am bereaved.” The five stages of Grief are : Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, & Acceptance. Acceptance comes at the end, but the other four can occur in any order and sometimes simultaneously. I add that Acceptance isn’t just the last stage of Grief; it’s also the first. There are those reading this who just haven’t had time to grieve because of life circumstances. Others whose loss is a year old, and still others who are still in shock from a loss this year. All are experiencing the same Category of Spiritual and Emotional pain, But in different levels of severity and type. So for example … Jane Doe’s grief Journey may look like this: START: Acceptance of being bereaved -> Anger & Bargaining -> Denial -> Depression -> Anger -> Depression -> Bargaining -> CLOSE: Acceptance of the Loss. Notice how I say CLOSE instead of END. Any of these may be reopened even after the loss is accepted. But post-acceptance, you and that loss have become acquainted. The tears may be involuntary … but you still are in a place of control that you may not have had when the shockwave of losing someone hit you initially. Still, John Doe’s may look more like this: START: Acceptance of being bereaved -> Depression -> Denial -> Depression -> Anger -> Depression -> Bargaining -> CLOSE: Acceptance of the Loss. See the variety? I redirected my Counselees to think of it not in terms of asking whether there is something wrong with you. But asking if you feel whole. Have you done all you needed to do to feel and release the pain? If the answer is no, or I don’t know, then likely we’re still in the thick of it and that’s ok. The alternative question would be … Is the burden finally light enough to carry? The time it takes to achieve that lightening can vary. I do think Christians have a unique hope and advantage. We believe in resurrection. Right after Jesus wept over the dead Lazarus, he proclaimed “Even though a Man shall die, yet shall He live.” For believers who have this baked into the fiber of their being, The pain can be greatly reduced and the process of grief even shortened. In light of Scripture ... a separation is a loss, but it’s not a permanent loss in the Kingdom of God. And don’t hear me wrong ... that I’m just telling you to just have more faith; What I’m saying is what St. Paul said: “We Grieve but not as those who have no hope.” So three Scriptures for you today: (1) First Thessalonians 4:13 “We do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope.” (2) Ecclesiastes 3:11 "He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end." (3) John 11:25-26 Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live. 26 And whoever lives and believes in Me shall never die. Do you believe this?” → Of the stages, which is the loudest right now? → Or do you feel like you're completely off the map? I’d love hear from you. Pastor Jonny M.Min Biblical Counseling Church by the Sea
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Exile
Living in Exile: Hope, Identity, and Resisting Babylon We all live in exile. If it often feels like you don't belong in this world as it is, it's because you don't. In 1 Peter 2:9–12, believers are called "temporary residents and foreigners" warned to keep away from worldly desires that wage war against our soul. To understand what it means for a Christian to live in exile, we have to grasp its history. The ancient Israelites found themselves conquered by Babylon, living in exile far from their homeland. Surprisingly, even when they finally traveled back, the prophets continued to refer to them as exiles because they were home, but not really. They were still ruled by oppressive empires and trapped in the same corrupt ways. Because of this, exile became a spiritual reality and an archetype—a universal symbol for alienation and a longing for something more. In the Bible, exile is the human condition until Christ returns. We are sojourners in a foreign land longing for a better home. Jesus of Nazareth wandered without a home, announcing a great restoration and promising in John 14:2, "In my Father's house there are many rooms." Until that day, Peter gives us core principles for navigating our current reality ... namely that ... What we hope for is what we live for. To live in the light of God's presence, we must live like God exists and live in the light of Jesus' return. Here are the three precepts for navigating life in exile: 1. Remember Who and Whose You Are The first step is remembering who you are and who you belong to. First Peter reminds us: "You are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation... Once you were not a people, but now you are God's people." Identity dictates behavior. While out with my five-year-old daughter, Zoe, I was playing the role of my usual goofy self—singing and dancing by the car. In a hushed, embarrassed tone, she whispered, "Dad, stop. We're at the store. Don't embarrass me." She later reminded me of a past tea party, saying, "You slurped tea at that tea party. That's not fancy. You need to be fancy." Zoe was highly attuned to identity and playing the part for the settings I’m in. She knew that the goofy dad needed to stay home so that the public shopping dad could take the spotlight. Observing her commitment to living into a specific role raises a challenging question: Do we have that same commitment to live into our identity in Christ? When we have a complete understanding of who we are because of Jesus, we live differently. Certain behaviors from the old life pass away because that is simply not who we are anymore. We are set apart, and set-apart people reject the darkness of past pain because what we hope for is what we live for. 2. Resist "Babylon" The second precept for living as a Christian in exile is to resist "Babylon"—the sinful aspects of the culture we face day to day. We are in the same situation as Daniel was in Babylon as Christians in an increasingly post-Christian society. In Daniel chapter one, the Babylonian empire asked Daniel and his friends to eat things that would go against their faith, defying God’s laws. While many others just went with the new culture fearing for their lives, Daniel and his friends refused to disobey. They asked for a few days to eat vegetables and fruits to obey God, and God honored their decision to remain faithful. They were healthier than the others as a result of their obedience. Resisting Babylon today goes against the grain. Babylon says it's about you and your convenience, but the kingdom of God says it's about sacrifice and laying down our life for our master Jesus. It means resisting the world's values—whether that means refusing to cheat on your taxes because others do, or staying committed to a marriage when it gets tough. Every breath is a second chance, and it is never too late to start again. 3. Represent the Kingdom of Christ Abstaining from a sinful culture is about what we don't do, but verse 12 moves into what we are meant to do: "Keep your conduct among the Gentiles honorable, so when they speak against you as evildoers, they may see your good deeds and glorify God." It is not enough for us to resist evil; we have to promote the love, compassion, and forgiveness of Jesus Christ. Resisting Babylon is just cleaning house, but representing the holy nation of Christ is refurnishing. Simply abstaining from evil is meaningless if we do not partake in the holiness of Christ. In Luke chapter 11, Jesus warns that when an unclean spirit leaves a house and finds it swept and put in order but empty, it returns with seven other spirits more evil than itself. If we make room for Jesus but don't ask him to take residence in us, other things will take that empty space. We are challenged in 2 Corinthians 5:20 as ambassadors for Christ. We must ask ourselves: Are we serving others? Are our words becoming of an ambassador? Are we patient with difficult people? Do people see us as the church, living out what we hope for? Conclusion: Taking Spiritual Inventory Sometimes we just get a little too comfy here on earth, and we forget that we are just passing through. If we forget who and whose we are, we'll get lost. If we fail to resist Babylon, we will become like it. If we fail to represent God's kingdom, we won't be directing people to the hope we hold on to. There is a story of a man who got lost driving around. Refusing to ask for directions, he made his own custom turns and judgment calls. He approached a sign that said “Do Not Enter,” but because the road looked clear, he decided to go anyway. Things seemed fine until he came upon the back of a similar sign. It read: “Welcome back, stupid.” It was the back of the do not enter sign had ignored! He had the opportunity to change direction, but he didn't. Without Christ's directions, we too will find ourselves going around in circles. The Bible warns, "Be careful if you think you stand, lest you fall." Even as believers, we can drift off course and find ourselves tempted to live life in cahoots with Babylon. Take a spiritual inventory today and adjust your course. If you do not know where you stand in your faith, you can resist Babylon today, recognize you were made for the kingdom of God, and totally change the direction of your life. Being in exile means being different. What are you hoping for? Because what we hope for is what we live for. And hope promotes the defiant whimsy which says Christ has the final word of Love. And that is worth throwing some confetti for 🎉
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